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5 Factors that have contributed to my hair growth



Hello, my lovelies!

Hair growth continues to be the number one topic of interest, so I figured a recap might be useful. I've narrowed it down to 5 factors that have affected my hair length:


Update: Current hair situation!


Hi all,

Just thought I should give a quick update on what's going on with my hair.

I've been in loose twists since December. Loose twists have been in my styling arsenal since some time in 2012 when Miss (now Mrs) Fizzy introduced me to them.

Products we love this Valentine's (and every) Day! (plus a guide to picking your products)



Picking products is a very individual thing. What works for one person doesn't necessarily work for the next. That's why whenever I get one of the most frequently asked questions "What products should I use for my natural hair?" I am always hesitant to start reeling off a standard list of products.

Hello 2015! Here’s a flashback to 2014 at The Kinky Apothecary.



Since we’re almost at the end of January 2015, this seems like the perfect time for my procrastinating self to wish all our customers, readers and Kinky Apothecary family a very Happy New Year, and all the best for 2015!

The 5 tweaks to my regimen that have totally changed my hair game



Following questions I received last week at both Social Media Week panels (which both turned into impromptu hair workshops), I thought I'd take this opportunity to update you on some changes I have made to my regimen since I last posted about it.

I'm always going on about the importance of building a regimen. The fact is, getting into a routine can help you better understand your hair, as well as make the sometimes mammoth task of tackling natural hair a lot less daunting. You are always learning a little bit more about your hair though, so it's likely that your regimen might change over time, and you find that some methods you might have once found effective no longer work for your hair or your lifestyle. This is particularly true as your hair grows, as ways of handling it when it was short might not work so well when you're dealing with more hair. For me, although I generally keep my hair at the same length, my busy lifestyle has meant that I find myself with less and less time to focus on it, however I cannot afford to neglect it. So as I find ever new and more creative ways to shorten my wash days over time, my regimen changes slightly.

These 5 tweaks have made dealing with my hair that much easier:

1/ Washing in twists

I'd heard so many people talk about washing their hair in twists, but never tried it until I came across this video, and it has definitely simplified my wash days.

I tend to start by detangling into twists this size, washing, oil rinsing (see below) and conditioning in these twists, and then making them smaller as I add my leave-in, oils and styler.

I tend to start with twists this size, wash, condition and rinse without undoing the twists...
...add my oil and leave-in, divide each twist in two (or 3, depending on what look I'm going for), detangle with the curl detangling brush in the video...which we also stock, and then twist with my styler. I end up with twists more or less this size...
...and end up with a twist out like this.
The biggest advantage is that I hardly spend any time in the shower. Most of my routine can take place in front of a mirror or the TV. I can also break down my wash days over several hours, or even several days if I need to (half an hour here, half an hour there, detangle and twist one day, wash the next, rinse out conditioner the next, etc)

2/ Oil rinsing

Another thing that I'd read about but didn't try until quite recently. Find out more here. I tend to add a layer of olive oil to my hair after shampooing and before adding my deep conditioner (I don't rinse out until after I've conditioned). I have absolutely no idea what the science behind oil rinsing is, but all I know is that it works for me. It aids with detangling, adds softness and shine, and has reduced frizziness and single strand knotting over time.

3/ Cold water rinsing

Rinsing your hair with cold water helps flatten your cuticles, which may have been raised through the shampooing process, hot water, steamers, or general wear and tear. With my highly porous, prone-to-dryness hair, I need all the help flattening my cuticles as I can get, so I try and include as many steps to my regimen as I can with this aim in mind. I find that the tap water in Nigeria doesn't get cold enough to be effective, so I tend to place a jug of water in the fridge which I pour directly on my hair as my final rinse.

4/ Aloe Vera juice

I have always used Aloe Vera Juice in my regimen, either in my spritzes or added to whatever leave-in I'm using for my version of what most naturals dub the Kimmaytube Leave-in. Like rinsing your hair with cold water, aloe vera juice, which is acidic like our hair and skin, helps flatten your cuticles, which may have been raised especially if your cleansers are not pH balanced. Some cleansers like castille soaps have a high pH, so I have mentioned in the past that you do need to add an acidic substance to them, like lemon juice, to bring the pH down a bit.

I had always noticed a preference for products with some aloe vera juice in them, or vaguely paid attention to the fact that my hair was always less brittle when I added AVJ to my leave-ins. However it was only after seeing Hey Fran Hey's method of "sealing" her hair with it that I increased the amount that I use during my wash process. I now keep my aloe vera in an applicator bottle in the fridge, and saturate my hair with it (literally just pour it on) after I have rinsed. This is even more effective than cold water rinsing, in my opinion (but I still do both), and has definitely contributed to the ease in detangling my hair. It has been by far one of the most effective factors in increasing my moisture retention levels.

5/ The LOC method

I've explained right from the beginning that to moisturise your hair, you need to start on wet or damp hair, or by using a product with water as the first ingredient. After washing, I have always been an advocate of adding a creamy leave-in conditioner or moisturiser to wet hair, followed by an oil.

The LOC method switches this round a bit. LOC stands for:

Liquid
Oil
Cream

The basic principle is that you moisturise first using a liquid (I use water, or aloe vera juice), followed by an oil to seal in the moisture from the water (I use a tiny dab of Vatika Oil, a fortified coconut oil which we stock: But hang on, Nibi! You've said your hair HATES coconut oil!! I know, I know, but since playing around, I've discovered that I was using WAY too much before, and now literally a drop is all I need for my entire head), and then a creamy leave-in afterwards serves to soften your hair. I started using this method about a year ago, and the difference has been ridiculous. I now use less moisturising product after washing, and my hair retains far more moisture than it used to.

My number 1 complaint with my natural hair has always been dryness. The last 4 additions to my regimen have totally changed this. My hair is no longer brittle, my issues with retaining moisture are nothing like they once were, and generally I have been able to spend far less time fussing over my hair. Apart from these tweaks, nothing significant has changed in my regimen. I do deep condition more regularly (alternating between protein and moisture) due to the colour. Once in a while when I have time, or can be bothered... or even remember in the first place... I might do an ayurvedic or henna treatment, which I have promised I will go into in a later post. But nowhere near the amount of treatments and potion mixing I was doing when I first started experimenting with my natural hair.

As always, what works for one person doesn't work for everyone, so just keep this in mind as a guideline and not gospel. It's about finding out what works best for you!

Also remember if you are trying to find ways to switch up your regimen, change one thing at a time, and not everything at the same time, otherwise there is no way to know what has worked and what hasn't.

For ideas on where to start with building your own regimen, this post might come in useful.

Hope I've helped somebody somewhere!

Until next time, have a great one.

xx

2013 Round-Up: What's been going on with my hair...(and tips for colouring)

Hi all,

I've been getting complaints that you don't see posts about me often enough on the blog. I'm just going to use this cheeky opportunity to point out that we're now on Instagram, and if you followed us ...@kinkyapothecary... you'd get far more frequent updates on my hair...but I digress! :p 

I guess this is as good an opportunity as any to kick off a series of posts catching you up on what I should have posted last year, had I been blogging as often as I should have.

So for those of you who I didn't run into over the course of 2013, and therefore didn't get the chance to see in person, this is what has been going on with my hair over the past 6 months or so...

By the middle the year I'd begun to get extremely bored of the length, shape and flat colour of my hair...


We all know I'm not averse to a little snip snip, so I took advantage of a trip to NYC in August and decided to try out a salon I'd been recommended in Brooklyn called the H2 Salon, where I proceeded to get my hair highlighted and had a few inches chopped off, particularly at the back where I wanted some layers...



The owner, Dailey Greene, prefers to cut straight hair (I've also been to stylists who cut hair curly), and since I very rarely ever wear my hair straight, I decided I might as well rock it like that for a couple of days (even though I knew I would be battling with humidity as I was heading to Miami a couple of days later). So she proceeded to flat iron before pin-curling it...




This picture gives a more accurate depiction of the initial colour (which has since turned a much more vivid red as I henna my hair)...



I didn't bother to try and fight humidity and just allowed my hair to swell with the moisture...



And bunned for the last few days before my next wash...


And despite the nerves that ALWAYS accompany any dalliance with heat, my hair reverted with no problems when I washed it...




I've tried to be more adventurous with styling...



(I've named this one the 'Wilma Flintsone')

And generally continued to have fun with it...


I have now decided to protective style for the next few months (for as long as I can bear it), and put in some marley twists...



...which I did myself just before our last event... 



...but more on my protective styling marathon later!



My tips for anyone considering colour:

  • My first recommendation would always to get your hair dyed professionally. I personally would never colour my hair myself (after a terrible experience years before I embarked on this 'healthy hair journey', which resulted in an astonishing amount of breakage). However there are many who colour their hair safely themselves. If you decide this is a path you want to take, be sure to do your research, read the instructions carefully, and ensure you take the colour up in stages: never think about going from black to blonde hair in one step, but gradually lift to red, brown and then blonde, if that is your goal.
  • Never even think about colouring your hair if it is not in an optimal condition. The very nature of dyeing, altering the natural colour of your hair, will naturally present it with some damage as with any chemical process. I'm sure I don't need to spell out the consequence of adding further damage to already damaged hair.
  • Deep condition frequently for some time leading up to the process, and ensure you deep condition regularly (and more frequently than before) afterwards. 
  • Also add more frequent protein treatments to your regimen (always followed up by a moisturising deep conditioning treatment.
  • Consider using semi permanent dyes, such as Naturtint, or vegetable dyes like henna. Note however that these do not lift colour, but deposit, and the colour might not come out exactly as advertised especially if you naturally have very dark hair.
  • For this and other reasons, ALWAYS do a patch test before colouring, to see how your hair responds. If colouring professionally, a good colourist will also insist on doing a patch test.
  • On the subject of henna, bear in mind a lot of research needs to go into this before you proceed. Henna has many benefits (I henna for strength, rather than colour), however there can also be many pitfalls attached, so ensure you are armed with information and know what you are doing. There is so much information required before you consider using henna, that I will be doing a few posts on the subject. In the meantime, this ebook is a great and comprehensive starting point for your research.
Until next time, take care!

~ Nibi

The Great Kinky Hair Christmas Affair



We've been hinting about this for weeks, and hope you've put December 21st in your diary. You do NOT want to miss this!

Our beloved Geri is coming to town, as is the beautiful Ijeoma of Klassy Kinks. Yup yup!!! So what better excuse to throw the natural hair "end-of-year party to end all parties"!

We've got so much lined up for you: in addition to the hair talk, we've got shopping, beauty treatments, food, a drinks bar (courtesy of Cointreau and Laurent Perrier again), freebies, sponsored giveaways... we could go on and on, but instead we'll just say come down and see for yourselves!

Tickets go on sale this Friday, so get yours, come down ... and don't forget to use the hashtag #naturalsdey.

Have we mentioned we're excited??

See you there...

This year so far, I have mostly...

Seeing as we're now half way through the year, I figured I should, you know, fill you in on what's been going on with my hair since you last saw me as, well, this IS a hair blog and all. Hopefully this can, kinda sorta, make up for me breaking my promise for regular updates!

So...this year so far, I have mostly worn my hair out, actually. Naughty, naughty, I know. But as I've mentioned, I am not that bothered with length retention at the moment, so have just been having fun with it.


The old reliable twistout

...and more twistouts

Tried my very first bantu knot-out

...and loved it

Battled dryness in London

Faced humidity in Lagos

Tried to master the art of capturing braidout fabulousity in photos...and failed

Once in a while remembered to protective-style

Embraced shrinkage

Did a couple of wash-n-go's

...and generally just had fun with my hair

So there you have it. 6 months of my hair in one post!

Humidity has gone into overdrive again with the rainy season, so I'm back in twists for now. I've also modified my regimen again, so update on that coming up soon.

Wishing everyone a great weekend!

Nibi

Images from the Bootcamp "pilot", August 2012



Hi all! As promised, here are the pictures from the Bootcamp "pilot" last year. We actually took loads, it was quite difficult whittling them down.

Enjoy, and hope to see you at the next one on Sunday.

Whipped Batter samples


Oils... pre-branding

The obligatory cupcakes...
...which everyone quite enjoyed, apparently
First everyone had a chance to mingle and settle in

Some of the faces at the event...


































Getting down to business: talking through the order of the day, and finding out what topics in particular everyone wanted covered



Any questions?
Talking everyone's ear off
And out comes the cling film. I have no shame!

Showing both how to wash in sections and how to wash in twists

Out comes the cling film again, as I leave the conditioner to marinade
My next victim (Ozzy from the 4Aces) conjures up some Dutch courage with a glass of pink champagne
Gave her a quick shampoo (after DC'ing first) before talking through and demonstrating options for stretching post wash, giving tips on twisting, and moving on to dry styling options
Erm... no Flo, that's not how you use a banana clip
THAT'S how you use a banana clip!
Had a bit of time at the end, so showed a couple of 5 minute styles that can be done with banana clips and bobby pins
Shame we had no black pins
Ah well. Next time
And a great time was had by all!