Natural Hair Calendars: March

Hello ladies,

Apologies for the silence! Been travelling and then ill. The first part made for some really cool "How The Rest Of The World Does It" pictures, the second part managed to reduce my productivity to 0.

I'm going to try and get back on the blogging game later today after I've caught up with all other issues, but in the meantime, here's your March Natural Hair Calendar printable, celebrating Women's History Month and downloadable here.

Catch you in a bit!

The braids are OUT!!!!

Woo! I honestly can't remember the last time I was so relieved to see the back of something. Two whole months of not being able to play with my hair has taken a lot of self-restraint, and discovering a crop of new youtubers has been akin to torture!

I feel like I lost an entire week to the braids, as of course I insisted on taking them out myself. I didn't start until Sunday evening, which meant that I didn't get very far and so spent the rest of the week trying to find 2 hours here and there to make as much progress as I could, and finding creative ways of pinning my hair to hide the half-braid half-fro status.

But they are gone now! And it will be a LONG time before I braid my hair again: just because of how much I missed my 'fro, and the sheer tedium of taking them down (remind me of this in about 3 months when I start whining about being too busy to do my hair and wanting to braid).

The good news is that there was minimal breakage, and I retained quite a bit of length (although I desperately need a trim). I'll post in detail about how I managed to take them down with hardly any damage to my hair, and what I did afterwards to revive my tresses. But first I'll be putting up the next installment in the "Kinky Hair 101" series tomorrow.

Enjoy the rest of your Saturday!  

Natural Hair Calendars

Hi all,

We're well into February now, and if you're anything like me you have already broken all your new year's resolutions.

At least you can stay on track of your hair progress with Natural Hair Calendars from The Natural Hair Love Affair. Featured in Essence Magazine's list of must-have natural hair gifts last Christmas, the calendars were created by the lovely Ayo (yes, she's Nigerian too) when she realised that most naturals would benefit from a planning tool to help record their natural hair journeys, and keep all their resources in the same place.

We have been in talks with The Natural Hair Love Affair for over a year now, and they will soon be gracing these shores via The Kinky Apothecary's shelves.

In the meantime however, you can download your monthly printable here, helping you to focus on one hair goal every month.

Happy tracking!

Check out the updated "Shop The Apothecary" tab!

Hi all,

I've obviously gone into a bit of a blogging frenzy unheard of for me, but this is just a quick announcement to say we've now updated the "Shop The Apothecary" tab (above) to include the stock list.

Also we now have a wider variety of products, including native coconut oil (for those who aren't fond of the fractionated version because they prefer the coconut smell) and pure unrefined cocoa butter from Ghana, and shea butter sourced from both Ghana and Mali!

Our stock list keeps growing, so make sure you keep checking back. The product list on the page will be updated immediately whenever we get anything new in!

Also look out next week for the announcement of the latest line we are going to be carrying.

Have a great one, peeps.

xx

This month I have mostly been... (and braid maintenance)

BRIEF INTRO: I keep getting told off for not posting enough pictures. Well, for not posting enough full stop. But people seem to want to see pictures mostly. So I've decided to do a series at the end of each month called "This month I have mostly been...", summing up how I've worn my hair for the past month. I really don't do enough interesting things to my hair to warrant more frequent posts than that on the subject (as I am extremely challenged when it comes to experimenting with styles) but I'll try and make up for that by posting lots of pictures. Happy?


So, this month I have mostly been, well, in braids as you all know. Which I guess has been a good thing, as I started the year off in this:

Snow, although beautiful, is NOT a kink's best friend!

But I can tell you, it has been a real challenge. I never start to miss my hair more than when I have put it in a protective style. Then I start coming across all these new products I want to try and all these interesting hairdos I think I will somehow be able to manage (not sure who I am kidding), and getting extremely jealous when I see other people's 'fros. Also, braids really don't make for a very exciting picture post.


However there is no point in having a protective style if you put your hair through the manipulation of getting it done, but don't leave it in long enough to reap the benefits. So I am going to try and keep them in for another 2 or 3 weeks. Yikes.


I have been maintaining by spraying daily with a mixture of bottled water and vegetable glycerin before I get in the shower (sometimes I add leave-in conditioner to the mix), and every couple of days, I seal with a mixture of Shea Butter and Castor and Grapeseed Oils (I melt the Shea, whip some Castor and Grapeseed Oils in, and then leave it to harden again. I have started using this as a regular sealant when my hair is loose. Shea and Castor because they are nice and heavy, and Grapeseed because it promotes shine. But I'll talk more about my updated regimen when I finally take these darned braids out).


I’ve washed every week. On week one I cowashed with Elucence Moisture Balancing Conditioner, applied some leave-in conditioner, and then sealed with the Shea/Castor/Grapeseed mix. I do this for the entire length of the braid to where my hair ends (my braids are done one inch past the ends of my hair and then knotted). On week two, I used a mixture of Dr Bronners Peppermint (only because it was the one I had open at the time. I don't have a preference for this over the other flavours), jojoba oil, water (I always dilute the Dr Bronners soaps as they can be quite stripping) plus some lemon juice to bring down the pH level as castille soaps have an alkaline pH. (I will talk more about hair and pH in the Kinky Hair 101 series, but the short version is hair- and skin- are acidic in nature, so using products with a lower pH can affect their condition, and appearance, and help prevent unnecessary damage). I don't really measure the amounts, but thinking back the ratio of castile soap to water is about 1:7. That stuff really lathers up and you don't need much of it. I pour in a few drops of oil and then squeeze the juice of about half to one lemon. I shake vigorously (in my spray bottle) and then I am good to go.

Roughly the amount of soap mixture I use every wash

I spray the mixture directly on to my scalp, concentrating on getting that clean, and then I allow the run-off of the soap mixture to cleanse my braids as I rinse. (As an aside, I know this goes without saying but if you have just one spray bottle and want to use it for both your shampoo mixture and your leave-in mixture, please make sure you wash it out properly so you are not spraying shampoo on to your hair on a daily basis when trying to moisturise). I then follow up by cowashing my braids, again with Elucence Moisture Balancing Conditioner, and then using a leave-in conditioner, and sealing as before.


I've alternated between cowashing, and this shampoo method every time I've washed my braids.


I then give myself a scalp massage using whatever oil blend I feel like at the time (always incorporating Jojoba as a base, and usually adding Castor and a few drops of Rosemary Essential Oil). This is a part of my regular routine on wash days, and maybe one or two more times during the week.

As I always use synthetic hair (I have used human hair about twice in the course of my life, and from what I remember it itched like crazy and I wasn’t too fond of the smell when it got wet. Also as I've had time to think about it over the years, the thought of having someone else’s hair on my head freaks me out a little bit), so by the 3^rd week, the ends had started to get a little bit ratty. I just trimmed them slightly to try and get them looking more polished. 

And that's about it.

So now its time for the pictures. I have tried to be versatile with styling my braids, as I didn't want to just pull them up into a ponytail every day, as I usually do. However, like I mentioned, I am challenged and thought it was best to just start slow. So this has mainly consisted of a variety of knots (particularly useful for keeping the hair off my neck in this heat since I got back to Lagos), or some form of accessory or another. 

Just pulled into a simple bun...

...and accessorised with a bow...

...or scarf

Trying to mix it up with a side bun

Same Bun Different View

Tried to vary it even when wearing them down

For work

Keeping them off my face...

...but trying to be slightly more imaginative about it

And the top knot for hitting the town.

So that's all, folks! I'll try and be a little more adventurous next month.